We have been debating whether or not we wanted to participate in holiday celebrations this year. Well, debating is really not the right word cause it really wasn't a hard decision for us to make. We just don't feel like celebrating this year! We had our boy last holiday season, which was our happiest one ever because of him. He made it fun and enjoyable for us. We just can't seem to stomach the thought of parties and presents and all those things that come with the holidays. It literally makes me sick and brings on some serious panic. So we have decided to let the holidays pass us by this year and quietly reflect on our boy and all the things he gave us and continues to give us. We recognize that this may not be the healthiest way of coping through the holidays, but it feels like the only option for us and it feels right.
To our family that will be missing us at these celebrations...we are sorry to miss out on being with you all during this special time of year. We want to be with you too but we have learned that missing loved ones is a part of life that we all have to deal with. We know of your love for us and you have no idea how much it carries us through our despair. Please know of our love for you all and that our decision to skip the holidays has nothing to do with any of you. You will be with us in our hearts, and we with you...as well as our dear sweet Abe.
We love you all so much...forever.
7 comments:
I think this is a wise decision. If I were in your shoes, I would do the same. Dont let guilt get the best of you, you both deserve to reflect on the events of the last year. If it makes you feel any better for not going to family things, me and dale are ditching our families for thanksgiving :) but we should get together again soon...love you guys so much!
You do what you have to do, and don't feel guilty. I know you will be miss, but I am sure they all understand. This is the hardest time of your life, and what gets you through is all that is important. If it relieves difficult feelings for you both, then that is exactly what you should do! Good luck and my thoughts are with you!
We skipped Christmas that first year too. Emma's birthday is 10 days before Christmas and I just kept thinking how 1 year before I'd had a 10 day old and how I had been so excited to have Christmas with a 1 year old. It hurts. It is best to take things at your own pace. It will be hard enough. I'm glad to hear that you are both doing what is best for you and not worrying about anyone else.
Much love!
xoxo...we love you guys :)
Our love, support and understanding always.
Thanks again for having us over for dinner. It was fun! Spencer was saying on the way home that being around you and josh make him realize how important things are in life. He really loves you guys. You make us realize the importance not only of our family and loved ones, but also friendships that will last a lifetime. Love you guys
I've skipped lots of holidays without even considering apologizing for my absence. Just goes to show that you are far more considerate than I could ever dream of being. As if we needed proof. Can I leave goodies on your doorstep? Love you!
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